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Aaron has put together an album of one of his weddings at the Inn to give you an idea of what the Inn looks like during a wedding.

Deluxe Outdoor Wedding Package – $5000
Four Overnight Guest Accommodations (three nights)
Eight Robes
Eight Mugs
Six 60-minute Massages
Two 90-minute Massages
Hand and Foot Treatments
House & Grounds Rental
Tables
White Wooden Chairs
White Table Linens
Dance Floor (10×10 w/cover)
One hour rehearsal
Setup & Takedown of Tables & Chairs
Assistance with Parking
Officiant Services

Wedding Dress – $500
Find the perfect dress to make your wedding everything you dreamed of, without breaking the bank. Many local shops have sales, and will discount your wedding dress if your attendants, mothers, and other wedding party purchase their attire from them as well.

Hair & Makeup – $150
If you aren’t comfortable doing your own hair, or are looking for something special, let a professional handle it at a reasonable price. Tabitha’s Hair Design does Updos starting at $55. Makeup should be simple and natural. Pick a new shade of eye shadow and lipstick just for the occasion and do your own.

Menswear – Free
Many places will give you the groom’s tux rental free if the rest of the men in the wedding party rent their tuxes from the same place, it is a great deal.

Marriage License – $63
The Thurston County Courthouse in the Auditors Office. This includes the fee to have a certified copy mailed to you after the ceremony for your records and name change.

Invitations – $50
They don’t have to be expensive to be customized and beautiful
Vistaprint.com – 100 for $50.
Costco.com – The minimum is 100, runs from $50 up.

Photography – $850
Your goal for photography should be to capture the memories as they happen. It doesn’t have to be the most expensive photographer for the best photos and you should be able to keep your negatives or get copies of all your photos on a disk so you can print them as you wish.

Food – $750
Planning your wedding at an off mealtime can still provide you with a beautiful ceremony and reception without the high food bill of a full meal. Have a mid-afternoon wedding so it falls between lunch and dinner when people aren’t expecting a full meal and remember the rule of 5 for catering an event. The rule is: keep it to 5 dishes, at least two hot dishes, and try to combine things. For a holiday party we had sliced roast beef with horseradish butter, rolls, herb & garlic roasted potatoes, a delicious salad, cheese, crackers, and a hot spinach and artichoke dip. People could either have appetizers by making mini sandwiches with the rolls and cheese, or a full dinner with appetizers and the only thing we added were rolls, which are inexpensive. Worried about alcohol? Instead of spending a lot on different types to have something for everyone, keep it simple too. A signature drink or drinks, wine and punch, or just champagne for the toast, it doesn’t have to be costly. The weddings that have tried to have everything for everyone have lots of everything left over.

Rings – $225
BlueNile.com. Ok ordering a ring online may seem scary to you, but we ordered ours from them and they are amazing as are the prices. Every order is shipped free via FedEx® shipping, guaranteed and returnable within 30 days, so you can be sure you made the right decision.

Music – $495
A string piece quartet? Musical Trio? Harpist? DJ/Emcee? Live Band? The choice is yours and the possibilities are endless.

Flowers – $700
Costco.com The same packages would cost thousands at a traditional florist. They are beautiful large bouquets, and an excellent value. The Costco package includes: 1 Bridal bouquet, 1 Maid of Honor bouquet, 4 Brides Maid bouquets, 1 Toss Away bouquet, 2 Mothers petite hand-tie, 12 Corsages, 12 Attendant boutonnieres, 6 Centerpieces, 10 Rose Petal buds.

Cake – $225
Make sure it tastes as good as it looks! Taste a lot of cakes, some of them may look amazing but they may taste like dry sawdust to support the weight of the frosting and design. Very few people will remember what your cake looked like, but if it tasted horrible they will remember that!

Transportation – $500
For a memorable experience for your guests and an excellent photo opportunity you can hire a carriage pulled by Clydesdale horses. They can provide a getaway right after the ceremony for some bride and groom private time before the reception and can take you to some fabulous places around town for photos. Then when you come back you could have your “rice” being thrown at your arrival instead of your departure.

Wedding Accessories – $200
These are those often forgotten things. Guest book, penholder with pen, garter set, ring pillow, flower girl basket, pillar candle for unity candle ceremony, Champagne glasses for your first toast, server set for your cake, keepsake photo album, money bag. At Costco.com you can get them all for one low price all coordinated to each other and many with specific wedding themes.

Wedding Favors – $275
Pick a theme, and run with it. Having a garden wedding – customized flower seed packets, having a tropical/beach theme – chocolates shaped as seashells, Love M&Ms – make a customized blend www.mymms.com, really the possibilities are endless, but should just be a little thank you. To again combine costs, if you were going to rent glasses for your toast, why not go to IKEA and buy them? They are $4.99 for 6, attach a custom tag to them thanking them for coming, and put a small tulle bundle of customized M&Ms or other chocolates inside.

Total: $9983

Elopement Package at the Swantown Inn – $500

Location
Flowers
Officiant
Witnesses
Cake
Sparkling Beverage
Wedding Night Accommodations

Wedding Dresses – $170
There are a number of dress shops that have off the rack wedding dresses for a lower cost but there are lots of online options that have all the romance of a wedding dress and cost less than having your hair done! There are lots of options too if you would like to have a coordinating dress for your attendant(s) if you have them. If you really want that crisp white gown, Target.com has them and they are all under $200!
www.victoriantradingco.com
www.pyramidcollection.com
www.target.com

Hair & Makeup – $55
If you aren’t comfortable doing your own hair, or are looking for something special, let a professional handle it at a reasonable price. Tabitha’s Hair Design does Updos starting at $55. Makeup should be simple and natural. Pick a new shade of eye shadow and lipstick just for the occasion and do your own.

Menswear – $50
The groom doesn’t have to wear a traditional tuxedo, but you can rent one for a reasonable price. Better yet if you have a nice suit, buy a vest and/or tie in a color you both love!

Marriage License – $63
The Thurston County Courthouse in the Auditors Office. This includes the fee to have a certified copy mailed to you after the ceremony for your records and name change.

Invitations – $20
They don’t have to be expensive to be customized and beautiful
Vistaprint.com – 10 invitations for $9.99, 20 invitations for $19.99 Costco.com – Might be better for announcements as the minimum is 100

Photography – $300
Amy Davenport (A Day to Remember) has hourly rates starting from $150 per hour.

Food – $120
This would be an excellent dinner for two with a moderately priced bottle of wine. You don’t have to provide food for your guests, and we actually recommend going to one of the local restaurants for a fabulous meal, you can add “You are welcome to join us for a no-host dinner at ______ after the ceremony” and your guests can decide for themselves to join you or not.

Rings – $225
BlueNile.com. Ok ordering a ring online may seem scary to you, but we ordered ours from them and they are amazing as are the prices. Every order is shipped free via FedEx® shipping, guaranteed and returnable within 30 days, so you can be sure you made the right decision.

Music – Complementary
We have several acoustical CDs that are appropriate as wedding music, including traditional wedding music. Even better, if you have a special song, incorporate it into your ceremony, it can play in the background while we sign your wedding certificates.

Transportation – $45
Why not have a designated driver for your trip out to dinner and back. There are limo services available with low hourly rates.

Total Budget: $1498

• January: Carnation, Snowdrop
• February: Violet
• March: Jonquil
• April: Sweet Pea, Daisy
• May: Lily if the Valley, Hawthorne
• June: Rose
• July: Larkspur, Water Lily
• August: Gladiolus
• September: Aster
• October: Calendula
• November: Chrysanthemum
• December: Narcissus

Flower Name

Meaning

Acacia

Friendship

Acorn

Life, immortality

Allium

Unity

Alyssum

Incomparable worth

Amaryllis

Pride, Beauty

Ambrosia

Reciprocated love

Anemone

Forsaken

Angelica

Inspiration

Apple Blossom

Preference

Arbutus

Thee only do I love

Arum Lily

Ardor

Aster

Variety

Azalea

First love

Bachelor’s Button

Celibacy, hope

Begonia

Beware

Bluebell

Humility

Bridal Rose

Happy love

Buttercup

Riches, childishness

Camellia (red)

You are a flame in my heart

Carnation (Pink)

I’ll never forget you

Carnation (Red)

My heart aches for you

Carnation (White)

Innocence

Carnation (Yellow)

Rejection

China Rose

Ever new beauty

Chrysanthemum (Red)

I love you

Chrysanthemum (White)

Truth

Chrysanthemum (Yellow)

Sighted love

Clematis

Mental beauty

Clover

Good luck

Coral Bells

Challenge

Coreopsis

Always cheerful

Cosmos

Modesty

Crocus

Youthful gladness

Cyclamen

Good-bye

Daffodil

Unrequited love

Dahlia

Dignity, elegance

Daisy

Innocent

Daisy (Garden)

Sentiments shared

Dandelion

Faithfulness, happiness

Dogwood

Love undiminished

Fern

Magic, fascination

Fern (Maiden hair)

Secret bond of love

Foxglove

Insincerity

Gardenia

Secret love

Geranium

I prefer you, folly

Geranium (Ivy)

Bridal favor

Gladiolus

Sincerity

Heather (Lavender)

Admiration

Heather (White)

Protection, wishes come true

Hibiscus

Delicate beauty

Holly

Domestic happiness, festivity

Hollyhock

Ambition

Honeysuckle

Country beauty

Hyacinth (Blue)

Constancy

Hyacinth (Purple)

Please forgive me

Hyacinth (Red/Pink)

Playful

Hyacinth (White)

Loveliness

Iris

A message for thee

Ivy

Wedded love

Jasmine

Social

Jonquil (daffodil)

Desire

Lady’s Slipper

Flighty

Larkspur (Pink)

Fickleness

Lavender

Devotion, cautious

Lilac (Purple)

First love

Lilac (White)

Youth

Lily (Day)

Coquetry

Lily (Tiger)

Wealth, pride

Lily (White)

Purity, virginity

Lilly of the Valley

Increased happiness, sweetness

Lotus Flower

Rejected love

Magnolia

Love of nature, nobility

Marigold

Cruelty, jealousy

Marjoram

Blushes, mirth

Mint

Virtue

Mistletoe

Affection

Monkshood

Chivalry

Morning Glory

Affection

Moss

Charity, maternal love

Myrtle

Love, home

Narcissus

Egotism

Oleander

Caution

Orange Blossom

Purity, eternal love, marriage

Orange Flower

Chastity

Orchid

Love, beauty

Pansy

Thoughts, consideration

Peach Blossoms

I am your captive

Peony

Happy life

Petunia

Resentment, anger

Phlox

Our souls are united

Pine

Hope, pray

Polyanthus

Price of riches

Poppy (Red)

Pleasure

Poppy (White)

Consolation, eternal sleep

Poppy (Yellow)

Wealth, success

Primrose

I can’t live without you

Primrose (Evening)

Inconsistency

Purple Clover

Husbandry, thrift

Queen Anne’s Lace

Haven

Quince

Temptation

Ranunculus

Radiant with charm

Rhododendron

Danger

Rose (Bridal)

Happy love

Rose (Dark crimson

Mourning

Rose (Dark pink)

Thank you

Rose (Peach)

Enthusiasm, desire

Rose (Pink)

Perfect, you’re lovely

Rose (Red)

I love you

Rose (White)

Innocence, secrecy

Rose (Wild)

Simplicity

Rose (Yellow)

Joy, friendship, jealousy

Rosebuds (Red)

Purity

Rosebuds (White)

Youth

Rosemary

Sweet remembrance

Sage

Domestic Virtue

Smilax

Loveliness

Snapdragon

Deception, gracious lady

Spider Flower

Elope with me

Spirea

Victory, conceit

Star of Bethlehem

Purity

Statice

Sympathy, remembrance

Stephanotis

Happiness in marriage

Stock

Lasting love

Sunflower

Adoration

Sweet Peas

Good-bye, blissful pleasure

Sweet William

Gallantry, bravery

Tansy (Wild)

Declaration

Thyme

Activity

Tiger Flower

Befriend me

Tuberose

Illicit pleasures

Tulip (Red)

Believe in me

Tulip (Variegated)

Beautiful eyes

Tulip (Yellow)

Hopeless love

Veronica

Fidelity

Violet (Blue)

Watchfulness, I’ll always be true

Violet (Purple)

Faithfulness

Violet (White)

Let’s take a chance

Viscaria

Will you dance with me?

Water Lily

Purity of heart

Wheat

Friendliness, fertility

White rose bud

Awakening love

Zinnia (Magenta)

Lasting affection

Zinnia (Mixed)

Thinking of an absent friend

Zinnia (Scarlet)

Constancy

Zinnia (White)

Goodness

Zinnia (Yellow)

Daily remembrance